I realize that this entry isn’t going to make much sense, and I apologize in advance. But I’m just going to write about things as they pop into my head, so here goes nothing! For the first time in my life, I am beginning to realize that as much as I want people to like me, and to have friends in ‘real life,’ that it’s no longer an absolute necessity that I change who I am to make them happy. If someone doesn’t like the fact that I have a tendency to act like a Dumb Blonde, and laugh with me when I do really stupid things, then I’m sorry but they aren’t worth my time and effort! The ironic thing is that the person who’s helped me with realizing this fact is my soon-to-be fiancee, Tom.
Sometimes I can’t help but think of whether or not, it’s all going to be worth it in the end. Does being in a relationship mean that you go from one extreme to another within a matter of moments? If so, then I am most definitely in a relationship…or does that mean that you’re in love? Because to be quite honest, I’ve never went through so many different emotions in such a short period of time. It’s getting to the point where the only thing that I am 100% positive about is that everything in my world seems perfect whenever I’m with Tom.
Don’t worry about it hunny. There isn’t anyone on this earth worth changing your personality for. Who cares if it doesn’t suit them? They need to STFU. Just be yourself. I hope things work out with Tom.
Be who you are, and let the world decide from there…. (yeah… that pretty much came from some kind of Blockbuster hit…) But the point is across nonetheless :]
O.O DO NOT ASK A 13 YEAR OLD ABOUT ADVICE
. Not a good thing. I mean, they may be rhetorical questions… but not answers I’m good at answering because I’m not engaged or will be engaged any time soon 
Anyways, hope you get stable soon! :]
I think relationships pretty much mean different things to and have different effects on everyone. It most definitely is a very good thing and a great sign though that everything seems perfect when you’re with him… if he makes you feel that way I say hold on to him tight with both hands and never let go ’cause that can be a hard feeling to find, and I’m glad you have it.
It’s good, though, that you’re at that place – where you don’t feel the need to change yourself to make others happy. It’s when you reach that point that you find out who your true friends are and your relationships with them become even closer
You’re right, you shouldn’t have to change yourself so people will like you. If they’re true friends, they’ll like you regardless. Being in a relationship means being committed to that person. I don’t know about extremes, but sometimes life throws things at you that you don’t expect.